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Thanks all for competing. The name Hamza won the competition.

 

Baby Competition-Week 3


Western Conference

Congratulations to Suhaib for handily beating Issa (5-1) and moving to the next round. Special thanks to the baby’s uncles (and their spouse) for contributing in this vote. The next competition will be between the names Aws and Tariq.

Eastern Conference

Congratulations to Ilyas, Amir and Amin who have successfully defeated their rivals and have made it into the top 16 bracket.  This means that team WoTOM was able to advance two of their names into the top 16 and team Abdallah was able to advance one team. Team Issa still has not advanced any names into the top 16.

Also, in a highly contested competition, Yosef/Yousef was able to prevail and defeat Green Ivy (17-16). This means that Group C has two teams with one win each. If Hud prevails against Yosef/Yousef it will mean that the group generated a three way tie and the parents will cast the deciding vote on which of the two teams prevail.

There will be five matches this week.

Jibreal vs Asim

Vote for Jibreal because it is a beautiful name

Vote for Asim because the best of the names were those of the sahabah, because they were the best of character

Eunice vs Haroon

Vote for Eunice because it is the name of the prophet and spelled that way it will be spelled correctly and I think it is super important not only to name the kid a good name, but to also be able to pronounce it properly in the country they live in.

Vote for Haroon because it sounds nice and has a very nice story and sounds good in English (Aaron)

…. because  he was the stability of Musa

Fuad vs Humam

Vote for Fuad because it is tradition

…. because  it is cute for the oldest son’s oldest son to be named after the father

….. because it is my brother’s name

Vote for Humam because it is a beautiful name

Ayuub/Ayoob vs Hamza

Vote fpr Ayuub/Ayoob because it a nice sounding soft name that is beautiful and represents a beautiful name

Vote for Hamza because I love this historical figure and he has always meant a lot to me.

Ziyad vs Mousa

Last remaining match in the Group A. Which ever name wins will go into the final 16.

 

Baby Competition – Week 2


Western Conference

The first competitive battle in the western conference.

On team Lama side is Suhaib, coming from Suhaib al Romi. He is a famous companion of the Prophet (PBUH) who spent his whole life traveling seeking knowledge about God.

On team Salah side is Issa, who is one of the greatest Prophets send down by God (Also known as Jesus). Naming the baby this name will give his name an amazing symmetry rarely seen in other names. His initials would be ISFSI, which is beyond cool.

Eastern Conference

The first week is over, during this week Hud got crushed by the underdog Green Ivy (81-17), Amir destroyed author’s favorite Nour (26-8), Ilyas defeated underdog Ziyad (28-7) and Amin handily defeated an easy target Handallah (33-2).

In the second week the top four winners will be facing the next team in their group to try and guarantee their spot in the competition bracket.

Ilyas vs Moussa

Vote for Moussa (Moses) because he was one of the most beloved Prophets to God and was known as the one who spoke to God. Everything he asked for he was granted as if he was God’s favorite (His brother becoming a Prophet, speaking to God, forgiveness, spouse, save the Isrealites, etc).

 

Green Ivy vs Yosef/Yousef

Vote for Yosef because it is a lovely name and it was originally supposed to be the father’s name.

 

Amir vs Hasan

Vote for Hasan because it is a nice name and the name of the Prophet’s (PBUH) Grandson

 

Amin vs Lil Money

Vote for Lil Money so he will always have money. But seriously don’t vote for this name.

 

 

 

I am expecting a baby boy !!


Yes that is a fact. The question is what am I going to do about it…

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I am going to let my family help decide the name, through a competition.

Yep, you heard that right, it will be a competition. Do not believe me, click on the Eastern Conference or Western Conference pages above this post to see I am telling the truth and then come back (by clicking on the blog title) so I can explain the rules.

Western Conference

The western conference is composed of the names selected by my wife and I. Since we live to the west of most family members, we have called this the western conference. In this conference, both parents will be given 32 votes during round 1 that they can distribute to any of the names they want and in any amount.  There is no maximum amount of votes they can put in a match, but there is a minimum of one vote.

Last but not least, for every match the parents will invite 2-4 other to participate in the voting (they only get one vote each).

In our first week it was Jubair vs Az Zubair and we invited our parents to participate in this first round of voting.

Az Zubair won 5 to 1

Eastern Conference

This conference is based on the names I got from our families both near and far. I split them into three categories, Team Issa (anyone whose name ends in Issa), Team Abdallah (anyone whose name ends in Abdallah) and Team WoTOM (which is a combination of Wooton, Toma, Omari, Mahmoud and Mustafa). I ended up getting a lot more names than expected. So I had to split them into groups until we can reduce them to 16 names (currently 24). To compensate, each week there will be four competitions from four of the eight groups.

Everyone interested is welcome to vote, just look at the right and vote for the weeks competition.

This weeks competition is

Group A: Ziyad vs Ilyas

Vote for Ziyad because all the Ziyads I knew were very nice, professional and successful men.

Vote for Ilyas because it’s very nice and unique. There is also a book “Ilyas and the duck” so you can always read the book to him.

 

Group C: Hud vs Green Ivy

Vote for Hud because it a great name for a boy and was the first Prophet after the flood (Noah)

Vote for Green Ivy because it is makes more sense than Black Ivy

 

Group F: Nour vs Amir

Vote for Hasan because it is Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) grandson and is a nice name

Vote for Amir because I like that name

 

Group H: Amin vs Hanthalla

Vote for Amin because Aminah and Amin sound very good together

Vote for Hanthalla because that was what Mo chose.

 

Please make sure to vote, you have until Thursday 8 PM to vote for your favorite name. At this stage, just vote for whatever name sounds better to you. Once we go to the next round I will start sharing more information on each name (based on what my family gave me).

I did it !!! I finally did…


I cant believe that I did it…. To say I am proud of myself would be an understatement. To say this is a milestone in my life would be an overstatement but closer to the truth.

I ran a whole mile, continuously at good pace without stopping (I was going about 4.5 MPH). Okay, I know what you are thinking as you move the mouse towards the top-right of the screen (or top left for fellow mac users) and getting ready to erase me from your life, but hear me out.

1) Technically, I did not run a whole mile at a continuous speed (I probably did about 0.8 of a mile), but that was because I literally ran out of time and had to run to a meeting.

2) That is exactly why I am so proud of myself. In all my life I have always dreamed of being able to run 1 mile only, without being out of breath and wheezing on the side of the road. Never even imagined it is possible (ie very hard to reach). That why earlier this year I set what I believed was a very lofty goal of running 5 miles, so lofty I assumed that publishing an article in a prestigious journal to be more feasible (still working on it).

I look back at my day and I am amazed with how rewarding it is to stick to your guns and just do it… I had just finished work at five and had a meeting at 6 pm. I went the mosque and prayed and then looked at my watch and it was 5:11. I thought to myself, I need fifteen minutes to go to the gym and the same amount to go to my meeting. Thus left me with exactly twenty minutes to exercise !! Usually I am the person who thinks 20 min is not enough to do anything, why don’t I just lay down and wait for the meeting.

Back at the gym I start the treadmill and decide to go really easy and walk the first lap at 3 MPH, based on my father recommendations of warming up. After the lap is over,  I adjusted the speed to find the lowest speed where I can still run comfortably (it turns out that it is 4.5 MPH) and I just start running. 

Thirty seconds later, my brain starts shouting to me “enough already, the boredom is killing me”. However, right then a marching band passes right in front of me, followed by cheerleaders and people carrying huge P and U letters. I look back at the time and it turns out I have been running for two minutes. My heart rate has stabilized at 164 (which for my age is perfect) and then my legs start screaming at me “we cannot handle it anymore, please stop”. Somehow, it did not bother me that they were shouting and their voices got dimmer and I kept going. Five minutes passed and I was amazed, I have ran for five minutes straight. That is unheard of and the best part of it was, my heart rate and breathing were stable. It suddenly dawned on me that I can do it and I can run my mile and I continued until my time ran out… 

If you have read this far congratulations on your major accomplishment, you have reached the golden pot. I have not written this just to till you how my day at the gym went.  

Our greatest hurdles in front of us is not lack of opportunity, education or money. It is ourselves, yes that right we are the ones who place obstacles in front of ourselves. It then becomes up to us to either to remove these hurdles or feel bitter about these hurdles. We choose what path to take. One day I will expand upon this more, but for now….

Welcome back and special thanks to the family and friend who encouraged, supported and black mailed me into the gym 🙂 and apologies for the grammar, typing this as I am heading to bed !

How can I make a difference in life…


Too many times we get sucked into these big plans of how to improve or help the world. It could be from the perspective of marriage, unemployment, proverty, health, education and so on… However, as we try to overcome these problems, we realize how big they are and how small we are and end up giving up and doing nothing.

I read this article in New York times interviewing Muhammad Younus who started the concept of micro lending in Bangladesh and was extremely inspired by his answer to the following questions.

“What would you say to a person who asks, ‘Where should I start?’

What are the problems you see around you? Sit down and make a list. Then put them in order of priority, [starting with] the things you hate the most. Then start with one and see if you can find a business approach to solve it. Suppose you put down unemployment. O.K., why don’t you create a social business to solve the problem of five unemployed people?

With microcredit, all I was trying to do was help a few people in one village so that they didn’t have to go to loan sharks and lose everything in the process. That’s how social business begins. Everything starts with solving a very tiny slice of a problem.

If you want to read the whole article (strongly encouraged 🙂 go to

http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/04/17/beyond-profit-a-talk-with-muhammad-yunus/

2012 in review


The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2012 annual report for this blog.

Here’s an excerpt:

600 people reached the top of Mt. Everest in 2012. This blog got about 11,000 views in 2012. If every person who reached the top of Mt. Everest viewed this blog, it would have taken 18 years to get that many views.

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